Thursday, March 10, 2016

Prayer, Part 4, How to Pray. Matthew 6:5-8



o   "And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.  7And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him."
o   So far in this series on prayer we looked at what prayer is, what we can do, and why we should pray.
o   In today's message, we are going to get back to practice, how to pray.
o   How does a person pray? Do we spend much of our time offering urgent requests? Or do we spend regular time adoring God?
o   When do we pray? Where do we pray?
o   These questions are important for us to answer because our answers will tell us how important prayer really is to us.
o   The Lord Jesus said more about prayer in his short teaching on the topic than most books.
o   In Matthew chapter 6, we find his most detailed teaching on prayer, and today we are going to focus in on verse six.
o   "But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you."
o   Let's take this verse one piece at a time.
o   It begins with these words: "But when you pray..." Literally, translated it says first, "but you, when you pray."
o   The first thing I'd like to point out about this phrase is that Prayer Must Be Personal.
o   Jesus makes prayer personal. When he said, "but you", he spoke to his disciples individually.
o   Jesus also speaks to us individually.
o   How is your prayer life? 
o   We must always see prayer as something every follower of Jesus ought to do. Prayer is for every believer.
o   Prayer is a personal privilege.
o   Hebrews 4:14-16 says, "14Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. 15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. 16 Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need."
o   According to the law of Moses, under the old covenant believers needed a priest to represent them before God.
o   When a believer brought a sacrifice, the priest would make the offering before the Lord.
o   Only once each year was the high priest allowed to enter the Most Holy Place in the Temple to offer a sacrifice for all the sins of God's people.
o   But when Jesus Christ died on the cross, the curtain that separated the Most Holy Place (i.e., God's presence) from the outer parts of the Temple was torn in two from top to bottom.
o   God opened the way for all believers to come to him personally through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ once for all.
o   Because prayer is a personal privilege for us, we must come to the throne of grace personally and boldly.
o   Prayer is also a personal responsibility. Hebrews 4:16 also reminds us that we are to pray when we are in need.
o   It is the personal responsibility of believers to pray for the needs of others and themselves.
o   When we are aware of any need, then we are to pray.
o   Personal needs, family needs, spiritual needs, friends, neighbors and the world, for all these the Scriptures instruct believers to pray.
o   It's not enough to pray with the preacher on Sunday morning. God made us to spend time with him personally.
o   Your prayer life is for you as much as it is for others. Prayer must be personal.
o   Let's look again at the first phrase of Matthew chapter 6, verse 6. "But when you pray..."
o   Notice the word, "when". When indicates time. Prayer Must Be Periodic.
o   The follower of Jesus must learn to pray at regular times.
o   The Lord did not say "if" you pray, he said, "when" you pray. He expects his followers to pray.
o   When do you pray? Are there certain times each day that you have set aside to pray?
o   Everybody wants a healthy prayer life. It is not that we plan to fail, but we often fail to plan.
o   So to have a healthy, active prayer life, we have to build prayer into our daily schedules; we have to have a plan.
o   When we do not have prayer built into our daily routines, then it is easy for prayer to get pushed out when we are busy.
o   Let's also notice that Jesus instructs his followers to pray in a specific place. "Go into your room," he said.
o   When we are used to praying in a specific place, it helps us to prepare to be with God and it helps remove interruptions and distractions.
o   Prayer must be periodic.
o   Prayer must be personal, prayer must be periodic, and Prayer Must Be Private.
o   Now, when I say prayer must be private, please do not hear what I am not saying.
o   I am not saying that there is no place for the church to pray together as the gathered people of God.
o   On the contrary, the New Testament tells of the believers gathered together praying and God used those prayers to display his power.
o   The Jewish Council commanded Peter and John not to preach in the name of Jesus, but the church gathered to pray and the apostles continued to preach boldly.
o   Later, Peter was put in prison, but the church gathered to pray and God sent an angel to release him.
o   The New Testament anticipates that we will gather to pray as well.
o   But what do we mean by private prayer? What did Jesus mean when he said, "go into your room and shut the door"?
o   The purpose of praying privately is to shut in yourself, and shut out the world.
o   We need undistracted, uninterrupted time alone with God.
o   When we do not have a place where we can go to be alone with God, then our prayer lives will be distracted and interrupted.
o   Two types of distraction can rob us of our private time with God.
o   The first type of distraction is internal. It is distraction that comes from within, inside us.
o   When you are feeling distracted or distracting thoughts keep popping into your mind, it is incredibly difficult to focus on praying or being silent.
o   We can do many things to help us focus, for example: praying aloud, mouthing our words silently, writing down distracting thoughts in point form so we can put them aside until later, praying the Psalms or other Scriptures, all these can help us to keep our internal focus.
o   The second type of distraction is external. It is a distraction that comes from without, outside us.
o   The four Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John) show many examples of Jesus going off by himself to isolated or solitary places to pray.
o   Just as Jesus needed private time alone with God where he could be free from external distractions, so we also need places where we can go to be with God without any distractions.
o   When we are alone to pray, then we are not praying for show, but for God alone.
o   Listen to how Eugene Peterson understands what Jesus said.
o   "Here’s what I want you to do: Find a quiet, secluded place so you won’t be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift from you to God, and you will begin to sense his grace."
o   Prayer must be private, prayer must be personal, prayer must be periodic, and Prayer Must Be Practiced.
o   When Jesus said, "but when you pray" he was saying that his followers need to pray.
o   Let's hear Matthew 6:6 again.
o   But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 
o   God expects us to pray.
o   Well, where do we start?
o   A good place to start would be with the A.C.T.S. prayer (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication).
o   A, Adore God for who he is and what he has done. C, Confess your sins to him. T, Thank him for his forgiveness, love, mercy, grace, and for hearing your prayers, and S, ask for God's supply for every specific need that you can on behalf of others and yourself.
o   Prayer must be practiced.
o   Prayer must be private, prayer must be personal, prayer must be periodic, prayer must be practiced, and Prayer Must Be to a Person.
o   Jesus said, "Pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you." 
o   As the Message words it, "Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift from you to God, and you will begin to sense his grace."
o   Our prayers are to be focused on our Father in heaven.
o   We pray to the Father, in the name of the Son, and in the power of the Holy Spirit.
o   And when we pray, we need to pray in the best way we know how.
o   We have already touched on the idea that prayer should not be a show.
o   We may be under the false impression that others will think us spiritual if we're seen praying in public, but that is very far from true.
o   If we are praying in public and no one else is praying with us, then we are merely putting on a show and that is pride.
o   According to verse five of our passage for today Jesus said, "And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites. For they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward."
o   Those who pray this way are not praying to the Father, but to themselves. When we pray this way, we idolize ourselves.
o   Prayer must be to a person and that person must be God.
o   Prayer also must not be mechanical ritual.
o   As Jesus said in verse seven from today's Scripture, 7"And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words."
o   Those who follow pagan gods use prayer as a way to manipulate their gods.
o   The Lord instructs us to pray with hearts and minds that are focused on him.
o   We serve a God who cannot and will not be manipulated.
o   Prayer must be to a Person.
o   Prayer must be private, prayer must be personal, prayer must be periodic, prayer must be practiced, prayer must be to a person, and...
o   Prayer Must Be Persevering.
o   Jesus said, "Your Father who sees in secret will reward you."
o   We need to persevere in prayer because God the Father will reward us.
o   Our motivation to continue praying comes from knowing God.
o   When we understand who God is and what he can do, then we will have the endurance to keep on praying.
o   Ephesians 3:20 tells us that God is "able to do far more abundantly than all we ask or think, according to the power that work within us."
o   Philippians 4:19 promises that God will supply every need according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.
o   Hebrews 11:6 says, "And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him."
o   Sometimes after only a few minutes of praying, we can become discouraged.
o   We may even go days or weeks without praying because we do not see results.
o   Practiced prayer is not about results; it is about being with God: worshiping him, adoring him, confessing our sins to him, thanking him, and depending on him to supply every need.
o   Prayer must be persevering.
o   Prayer must be private, prayer must be personal, prayer must be periodic, prayer must be practiced, prayer must be to a person, and prayer must be persevering.
o   Practiced prayer is not about results; it is about being with God.

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