Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Cain: Wanting What's in My Neighbour's Bowl. Sunday, May 25, 2014

Genesis 4:1-16.
- Adam & Eve have three sons, which the Bible mentions by name: Cain, Abel, & later Seth.
- Of course, they had many other children (Genesis 5:4), but Cain is the firstborn & Abel likely the second.
- With the passing of time, the two boys grew up.
- Cain farmed crops, while Abel raised livestock.
- We must recall that this was before the flood, so people were not yet permitted to eat meat. Plants were the food of the first family.
- The crops Cain harvested would have provided much needed food for the first family.
- The livestock Abel raised would have clothed the family & provided animals for sacrifice, which was practiced by faithful worshipers, over the many years before God gave the law of Moses.
- In their growing up years Cain & Abel would have experienced the worship of God with the rest of the family.
- They knew by many years of experience that the blood of an animal without defect was expected & the animal would be burned as a whole burnt offering.
- Knowing what God expected, however, Cain chose to bring his own work the fruit of his own labors, a portion of his crops, as a gift to the Lord.
- Perhaps he was tired of Abel getting all the attention & credit because the family offerings always came from Abel's flock. Jealousy can take many forms.
- Perhaps Cain's jealousy & pride in his own work caused him to reject God's way & choose his own way to worship God.
- Cain knew what God expected, but Cain wanted to do what "Cain" wanted, so he chose to do something other than what God said was acceptable.
- What was the result of Cain's disobedience?
- The Lord looked on Abel's sacrifice favorably, accepting his offering, while he did not look favorably on Cain's offering.
- God rejected Cain's offering for two reasons: i) Cain's offering was given out of jealousy & selfish pride; & ii) Cain's offering was not what God expected of him & therefore unacceptable.
- Cain had no one to blame but himself for his failure to worship God the way God expected.
- He also had no one to blame but himself for his jealousy, selfishness & pride.
- Cain was humiliated & enraged. He was seething with anger & ready to fly off the handle.
- God knew what was going on inside Cain's heart, so he gently confronted Cain that he might win him back.
- "Why are you so angry? Why do you look so dejected? You will be accepted if you do what is right. But if you refuse to do what is right, then watch out! Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you. You must subdue it & be its master." (Genesis 4:6-7).
- "No matter how deliberate the sin; no matter how intense our anger at God, the gracious & merciful Creator seeks to restore the relationship" (Morris, Beginnings, vol. 1, 198).
- God called Cain back from doing his own thing, his own way, by showing his patient, compassionate love, & warning Cain before the anger in his heart could freeze into unrepentant sin & result in devastating consequences.
- But did Cain listen? Did Cain really even hear God? Or was God's word to him in one ear & out the other.
- No, Cain didn't listen. Cain rejected what God had to say. He ignored God's word to him.
- He was too busy tending & stoking the fire of his humiliation & jealous anger.
- As a good farmer, Cain did what came naturally, only, instead of cultivating the ground, he cultivated his heart to produce a powerful resentment.
- Unwilling to accept God's correction, Cain turned his back on God & formed a plan.
- He lured Abel out into the field, Cain's comfort zone among his crops, so they could have a little "talk."
- There, while they were talking in the field, Cain rose up & killed his brother in premeditated murder.
- Again, God seeks out Cain to confront him in his sin. "Where is your brother? Where is Abel?"
- Again, we witness sin's power & our unwillingness to take responsibility for our sin in Cain's reply, "How should I know? I'm not his guardian!"
- Despite Cain's sin, God loved him just as he loves us.
- Cain regretted what he had done, he felt bad about it, but regret is not repentance.
- Repentance is more than a feeling; it requires action.
- God gave Cain the opportunity to confess & repent.
- Unlike his parents who merely played the blame game (back in the Garden), Cain answered God's probing question with an outright lie.
- Sin was no longer at the door lying in wait. Sin had completely taken over Cain's heart.
- Cain tried to hide his sin with a lie, but you can't hide anything from Almighty God.
- God saw through Cain's lie because he already knew what happened.
- God knew Cain would murder Abel before Cain did.
- Cain's false front was about to shatter.
- "What have you done? Listen! Your brother's blood cries out to me from the ground! Now you are cursed & banished from the ground, which has swallowed your brother's blood. No longer will the ground yield good crops for you, no matter how hard you work! From now on you will be a homeless wanderer on the earth." (Genesis 4:10-12)
- Cain deserved death for the murder of his brother, Abel, but God filled Cain's punishment with his grace.
- The ground Cain had so proudly farmed would no longer give Cain the crops by which he could defy God or feed his family.
- Since his efforts to earn God's respect were by his own standards rather than God's standards, Cain would be banished further from God's presence into a land of wandering, Nod.
- One who murdered his brother, now feared to lose his own life at the hand of others.
- But God continued to be merciful to Cain. Although filled with self-pity & regret rather than repentance, God showed Cain undeserved mercy & unconditional love & grace.
- God always planned to take sin's heavy punishment into his own hands.
- God protected Cain placing a mark upon him to let others know not to lay a hand on him.
- The human tendency in responding to murder is: "revenge", but God would not allow Abel's death at Cain's hand to be avenged.
- As God said, "'I will give a sevenfold punishment to anyone who kills you.' Then the Lord put a mark on Cain to warn anyone who might try to kill him."
- God was fully prepared to let the full weight of Cain's punishment fall on anyone who would kill Cain, rather than on Cain himself.
- God always planned to take sin's heavy punishment into his own hands.
- What about us?
- We need to learn to see Cain as a picture of God's grace.
- The Bible tells us that God's plan was Christ crucified before the foundation of the world (Rev. 13:8).
- So, when God looked at Cain's sin, He saw the future. He saw the cross.
- God chose not to punish the full extent of what Cain's sin deserved because of His grace.
- We often think God doesn't give us what we deserve, & you know something, we are right, He doesn't.
- If God gave us what we deserved, we'd be dead.
- Instead, God deals with us by His grace.
- God graciously chose to deal with sin himself in the cross of Jesus Christ, His only begotten Son.
- If He had not, then no one could be saved.
- God always planned to take sin's punishment into his own hands.
- We also need to learn to see ourselves in Cain.
- Sure most of us aren't guilty of murdering our brother, but Jesus pointed out that we are equally guilty when we harbour anger toward a sister/brother, call others names, or curse them & the Bible also says that gossip is equally harmful.
- How often do we use God's blessing on others as an excuse to embrace jealousy or resentment as Cain did?
- Cain felt that it was not fair that his crops were not an acceptable sacrifice. It wasn't fair that the fruit of the abilities God gave him were not good enough for sacrifice.
- Sitting at the breakfast table a young girl looked into her sister's bowl & exclaimed, "Hey! How come Suzy got more than me? That's not fair!"
- Her father saw an opportunity. "Jenny, not everything in life is fair. Life is not about what's fair. You need to be thankful for what God has given you & make the best of it."
- "I put in your sister's bowl what she needs & I put in your bowl what you need.
- "Being jealous of how much is in your sister's bowl shows that you feel you know better than I what's best for you."
- "The only time you should look at your sister's bowl is to make sure she has what she needs."
- Cain was wrapped up in what wasn't in his bowl rather than in what was in his bowl.
- That is also often true for us.
- God is gracious to fill our bowls (providing for our needs).
- I am cut to the heart to think of how often I have wanted what was in my neighbour's bowl instead of being thankful & content with the bowl God has put before me.
- If God gave us what we deserved, we'd be dead.
- Instead, God deals with us by His grace.
- God always planned to take sin's punishment into his own hands.


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