Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Getting the Kingdom 9, The Ten Bridesmaids: "Expect Delays" Matthew 25:1-13

- If you have ever flown in winter, then you know that there are times when because of storms & cold weather that you have to expect delays.

- If you have ever been delayed, then you know that the airport is not your destination. You are trying to get somewhere, somewhere other than the airport.
* - So you do two things: (1) be wise, making the best of it, the best use of your time, energy, & resources; & (2) be ready, prepared for your flight.
- As we study the parable of the ten bridesmaids this morning, being wise & being ready are what we need to take home with us...
- Jesus is coming, no one knows when;
Be wise & be ready, expecting delays until then.
- In this parable, Jesus is being very realistic, referring to common practices & customs in order to make his point.
- Wedding processions went from the home of the bride to the home of the groom at night with singing & dancing.
*- The late hours would have meant that Herodian oil lamps (from the era of Herod the Great) would not have been used because they did not provide enough light.
- Torches would have provided the necessary light & in poor villages these torches would've been as simple as sticks wrapped in oiled rags.
- As you may well guess, such torches would not burn very long.
- But why the delays? Delays occurred because the bride's family would haggle over the value of the wedding gifts, which pointed to the value of the bride & the wisdom of the groom in choosing her. This discussion could take hours.
- So as the bridesmaids waited, they all became tired & fell asleep.
- Notice that Jesus didn't condemn any of the bridesmaids for falling asleep, sleeping was not the issue.
- In a culture that did not have electricity, dependent on oil lamps & torches for evening light, it was uncommon to stay up into the night.
- The issue was the five foolish bridesmaids who did not bring enough oil to keep their torches burning.
- The five foolish bridesmaids were completely selfish by expecting the wise bridesmaids to share their oil, for if they shared their oil, then the possibility of running out & ruining the procession would be greater.
- "The unwillingness of the wise bridesmaids to share their oil reflects their concern for their friend's wedding" (Keener, Matthew, p. 598), nothing else.
- To run out of oil would be to insult the bride & groom.
- No wonder they ran off to try to go buy more oil, which raises the question: what seller of oil would be open in the middle of the night?
- None, it would be very difficult to buy oil at such a late hour.
- The five foolish bridesmaids would have to convince the merchant to get out of bed & open up his/her store which would take time, time, they did not have.
- Because the five foolish bridesmaids did not plan ahead, they brought trouble on themselves (Evans, Matthew, p. 417).
- It was a great honor to be invited to participate in a wedding procession as part of the wedding party.
- It was a also great insult to fail to do your customary duty to keep the torches lit for the procession, "an offense that they would never be allowed to forget" (Keener, Matthew, p. 598).
- They were excluded from the celebrations not because the door was locked, nor because the host didn't recognize them, but because they offended the bride, the groom, & their entire extended family, after having been thought worthy of such an honor (Keener, Matthew, p. 598-599).
- The only suitable punishment for such an insult would be to be shut out of the feast, a celebration that normally lasted seven days.
- Other guests would have been allowed to come & go, but not them.
- Not only would the five foolish bridesmaids miss out on the joyful celebration, but they would be shamed, knowing that their short-sighted thinking & failure to plan ahead was the cause of the offense.
- In the ancient world, the only time you would tell someone, "I don't know you," is when you wished to treat them like a stranger & keep them from approaching you.
- & therein lays the sting of this parable of Jesus.
- We need to remember that this parable Jesus told was not something that really happened.
- It was a story that he told to warn his followers against knowing they should keep watch, yet not watching.
- Jesus is coming, no one knows when;
Be wise & be ready, expecting delays until then.
- When we as Christians fail to do the duties which our Lord has assigned us until he comes, then we exclude ourselves from our place among God's people at the heavenly banquet.
- Failing to do our duty excludes us because we will have insulted our host, who is none other than our Lord & our God.
- If we fail to live the life our Lord calls us to live now, then how can we live that life in eternity?
*- Remember the old saying: when you fail to plan, then you plan to fail.
- Our lifestyles & our priorities for our church life & our individual lives need to be aligned with Christ centered lifestyles & Christ centered priorities.
- When we commit our lives to Jesus Christ, then the Christian way of life begins.
- A life that is specifically Christian is a life that reflects the values & character of Jesus.
- We cannot expect to be perfect in the sense that modern people understand perfect, sinless perfection.
- But we are called to be prepared. We are called to live lives of progress toward the goal of Christ likeness.
*- Remember: Progress not perfection.
- Striving to do our Christian duty of living out the gospel by word & deed shows our Lord that we are keeping watch.
- Let's just take a moment & go back to the image of the airport.
- The church is like an airport; it's not the destination; it's how we catch our flight to God's country.
- In the face of stormy weather (& we'll always face stormy weather this side of eternity) we need to expect delays & we need to remember two things & follow through on them.
*- (1) Be wise, making the best of it, the best use of our time, energy, & resources for God's kingdom;
*- & (2) Be ready, prepared for our flight.
*- Jesus is coming, no one knows when;
Be wise & be ready, expecting delays until then.

No comments:

Post a Comment